March 2008

March 12: I'm Doing Very Well
March 25: Of Conventions & Condos

March 12

I'm Doing Very Well
Something very, very cool happened on February 29th but I can't talk about it. Not yet.


I never mean to take such long hiatuses from Abstract Thoughts but they do happen. Mostly because I'm busy and what I'm busy with doesn't make for good journaling whether or not it is important to me. Much of it is rather like blogging about dreams - fascinating to you but boring to most of the world.

On the writing front, Amazon has me very busy and this makes me happy. I am done with my part of CHILL, 3rd Edition for Otherworld Creations and I'm in a holding pattern for my projects for Margaret Weis Productions. I should be doing some editing work for a friend here soon and my freelance/mostly at home/ QA job kicks in after Norwescon. I still have about 10 more Freaky Friday Fictions to write before that project moves into its next phase of editing and I'm still waiting for query responses to arrive. Most of them are rejections but the Really Important Query(TM) hasn't rejected me yet and, the Universe willing, won't.

I'm also being a slacker on starting the next book in the fantasy series or the next in the space opera series. I should pick one and dive in but ... I'm being a slacker.


On the relationship front, everything is just getting better and better. Even when Jeff and I have to have those really frickin' scary nakedly intimate talks about things - as most who intend to spend the rest of their lives together do. He reads me very well and I am learning to read him. I suppose it helps that he is very easy going person while I'm a bit uptight. If he expresses a definite opinion on something, I almost always acquiesce to his desire because he has an actual opinion on it and I listen to that. Most the time, he just goes with whatever I want. Not in a downtrodden "Yes, dear." way but more in a "If it makes you happy." way.

I also got my basic wedding ceremony and reception website set up. It's plain but functional.


The kittens are making themselves right at home and they seem to have decided that they want whatever Esme has. It has required a shift in how we do things around here - especially with litter boxes and food dishes. I'll leave the TMI details out of it. Suffice to say that Esme is getting used to the kittens and neither one had died or even been maimed by my princess bitch of a cat... yet.

She so used to them that she will play with them now IF (and only if) I am not watching. I've seen her play with them with the laser pointer and play a chase game with them. However, if I am around and appear to be paying attention, she hisses and bats at them. Most of it is for show at this point. While the kittens do have a healthy respect for her, they really aren't hurt in the batting and it shows in their responses to her. They just get out of range and leave her alone when she growls. I mean, Esme allowed them to eat out of the same bowl as her and now doesn't really even growl at them on the bed at night.

This last bit, all three cats on the bed, usually around me, pinning me in and making me hot, has started the institution of "cat free" nights. A couple nights a week, all cats and kittens get unceremoniously booted from the bedroom so Jeff and I can get some uninterrupted (and much needed) sleep. This is working out well. They all have each other to keep company with.


The condo still is not sold. It will be soon. I hope. It is a huge deal to me right now.


Gaming-wise, life is interesting. In the Vampire LARP, my beloved ghoul character was murdered and, in a last ditch effort to save her with 12 seconds to spare, was embraced by someone who was not her domitor. This has put the path of three different characters into a complete spin. Not a bad one but one that is very interesting and unexpected. I'll admit, RPing this change has been a bit rough on me. It's hard to play an emotionally fragile character in a room full of predators. But, it has led to some most awesome scenes. This is the first time I have had a character killed since my very first LARP character over a decade ago that I did not have prior knowledge of or helped plan. It's been very interesting.

The Deadlands Dark Tower table top game is about to start and I am super excited about it. It's going to be a small game. No more than five players. We've got two definites, one maybe-probably (gonna talk to her again soon) and two maybes-depends on work schedule. Jeff is running it. Rob and I start this Thursday. We'll see when the rest join the game.

Also, there is a distinct possibility that I may run a "once a month" Changeling the Lost game once I get the new Changeling book and some of its supplements. I'm still in love with the background and I really want to play it. Rich is going to run one online for me and a couple other people, too. The system is easy to run and I absolutely adore the background setting. It's been a while since an RPG setting has captured my attention so well.

March 25

Of Conventions & Condos
Well, I think I've actually done it. The condo is sold. I've just gotten back from my part of the closing (IE: document signing process) and the official closing date is the 28th of March but the buyer is going to sign her part of the paperwork this afternoon. I think they do it many hours apart on purpose to make sure that the buyer and seller never meet face-to-face. I mean, I'm glad the condo is sold. That's a huge weight off my shoulders but the last minute dickering between our intermediaries made me want to kick puppies.

Of course, everything happened in the last five days or so while I was at Norwescon. Thank goodness the hotel had a decent business center where I could get to my email, view and print PDFs that needed signatures - right frickin' now - and fax them back to the real estate people. I got home from the convention on Monday and almost immediately had to turn around and be at the condo to watch a new hot water heater be put in. The guy was nice but could not do math to save his life.

Norwescon was good for me. I got to show off my man to various people who welcomed him in with a smile and a hug. I worked IT and Registration again and got reminded that I had the (admin) power to do what was needed on the machines. I got to go to a couple of really good writing panels and a couple of "schmooze-n-booze" parties. While at one of these, I received an invitation to be a writer panelist at Radcon 2009. It made me realize that I needed to put together an actual convention appearance schedule because, well, I have one.

I met up with some super keen people like Richelle Mead, Cherie Priest, Caitlin Kittredge, and Pat Rothfuss. Some drinking, much talking and a good time was had by all. With luck, I will actually be on panels with some of these people at next year's Norwescon. I also got to meet Dan Simmons and had a short conversation with him at the last writing panel of the convention. He is a pretty nice guy.

While I was at Norwescon, schmoozing, boozing, buying and socializing, my recruiter called and set up my training for my freelance QA job that starts tomorrow. There is no rest for the wicked where I am concerned and I'm OK with that. I've been on my feet and running ever since I got back - condo stuff, wedding stuff, reception stuff and job stuff. It feels oddly good to be so busy. I guess I needed a kick in the ass.

On top of all of that, I've got the bee in my bonnet to start working on the next Regresser's Evolution part - Empire's Devolution. There's nothing like being around a bunch of hyper-smart, creative types to put one in the mood to write and be creative. A lot of these people are where I want to be in my writing career very soon.

I've decided to stick all three parts of the Regresser's Evolution series into one large book. So, Empire's Devolution (which may actually become the name of the third part, I don't know) doesn't have to be the size of a full giant novel. I can just work on telling this part of the story - what was happening at home while everyone else was dealing with the crisis in space. I figured out that I have nine days to cover and a lot ground to cover including three murders. I've started the ED outline while I am going over the edits that Brian did to RE to get myself back into that universe.

It's good to be back home. I really missed my bed and my kitties. Time is moving again and it makes me happy.

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